I'm 41.
And while I may not be smart, I'm not as dumb as I used to be.
Here are 8 areas of life where I've altered the way I look at the world (and would recommend these alterations to others too).
A former version of me…
1. Thought all anger was bad I used to think that all anger was "bad", but now I feel bad for people who never feel it.
Anger acts as positive fuel when positioned effectively.
Don't take your anger out on other people—instead use it to create the change you wanna see in the world.
2. Tried living a "perfect" routine every day Sure, have a routine. If you don't, you will hardly achieve anything meaningful.
But a lot of life's magic happens during the gray areas of life.
Or the time that's not perfectly planned.
Too much routine makes you robotic. And lame.
3. Emphasized cardio >> resistance training I used to put cardio on a higher pedestal than resistance training.
But now I've realized that resistance training is much more helpful in:
- Losing weight
- Building muscle
- Optimizing energy & metabolism
Now I lift 4x per week and look/feel better than ever.
4. Used to try & please people I thought that trying to please others = kindness. I was wrong.
Kindness is being authentic, direct, and honest.
Trying to please others creates an inauthentic relationship and makes us think we have control over how others feel.
Just be you.
5. Aimed to get to inbox ZERO every day Most of my nights were spent reading & replying to every email, only to wake up to 100s more.
How dumb.
Some emails matter. Most don't.
Inbox 0 isn't the goal. Being an effective communicator & getting important sh*t done is the goal.
6. Treated 'rich' people better I thought that rich people deserved more praise.
But rich people aren't better at life, they're just better at making money. Or got lucky.
What matters most is how you show up & the impact you make.
Many great people aren't slaves to $$.
7. Allowed toxic people in my life I'd put up with all sorts of people, even at work.
No longer. If you're a bad person or give off bad energy or I can't stand being around you...
I will avoid you, even if it's bad for biz.
Life is too short. Spend it with those you love.
8. Cared primarily about making money (not art) Working for $ isn't bad, but it shouldn't be everything.
It's also important to have an elevated goal that fulfills your soul.
You were put on this earth to CREATE.
Also—money follows value and value comes from creation.
Art first!
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