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  • Bouncing back your credit score

  • What actually fills your days in early retirement

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CREDIT STRATEGY

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I Tanked My Credit Score in My 20s. Here's What I Learned To Get It Over 800.

At one point in my 20s, my credit score dropped below 600.

I didn't even fully understand what that meant, I just knew things were harder. Higher interest rates. Limited options. Subtle rejections. That quiet financial tax you pay when the system doesn't trust you.

I moved to Boston at 18 determined to be independent, and not having to ask my parents for money unless I really, really needed it. I worked three jobs while studying full-time. I opened a credit card because that's what responsible adults do, right?

But no one explained utilization.

No one explained how interest compounds against you.

No one explained that one late payment can sit on your report for seven years.

I maxed cards. Paid late. Consolidated debt emotionally instead of strategically (yes, talking about personal loans).

When I moved back to LA, I assumed earning more would naturally fix everything. It didn't.

I had to learn how credit actually works, how it influences rates, approvals, and negotiating power long before you apply for anything.

Credit is leverage. And leverage rewards preparation.

A strong credit score means:

  • Lower mortgage and auto loan rates (which can save tens of thousands over time)

  • Access to premium credit cards with travel points, purchase protection, fraud coverage

  • Stronger rental applications

  • Better negotiating power

  • Financial flexibility before you're desperate for it


I've heard people say, "I don't have a credit card because I don't want to spend money I don't have."

I get it. That sounds responsible.

But you can use a credit card without carrying debt. You can build history without paying interest. And if you avoid credit entirely, you're not proving anything to the system, which means you're not unlocking its benefits either.

Once I understood how scores are calculated, my decisions got sharper.

According to FICO:


That's 65% of your score right there.

So here's exactly what I did (and what I'd do again) if I had to rebuild from sub-600 tomorrow.

Step 1: Audit Before You Hustle

Pull all three reports from AnnualCreditReport.com.

You'd be surprised how often there are reporting errors: incorrect balances, duplicate accounts, misreported late payments. Fixing inaccuracies can move your score faster than grinding payments blindly.

Today, I wouldn't manually monitor this. Tools like Dovly AI scan your credit report continuously, flag inaccuracies, and surface optimization opportunities automatically (and for free). Even small reporting errors can cost you thousands in interest over time. Visibility matters.

Step 2: Attack Utilization Like It's a KPI

Anything over 30% usage hurts you.

Under 10% is ideal.

Your utilization is often reported at your statement closing date, not when you make your payment.

If you pay balances down before your statement closes, your reported utilization drops faster.

Instead of randomly paying off the smallest debt first, I focused on the cards closest to their limits. That single move created noticeable jumps.

I also requested credit limit increases when it made sense (without increasing spending). More available credit = lower utilization ratio.

Step 3: Protect Payment History at All Costs

Autopay minimums became non-negotiable.

One 30-day late payment can drop your score dramatically and sit on your report for years.

Even if you're in a rough patch, protect that category first. It's 35% of your score.

Step 4: Play the Long Game

  • Don't close old cards unless fees are unreasonable.

  • Cluster loan applications within a short window when rate shopping (FICO treats it as one inquiry).

  • If you have collections, negotiate carefully and get "pay for delete" agreements in writing.


And if you're rebuilding, think in 6-month cycles:

Month 1: Pull reports. Dispute errors. Set autopay. Stop new applications.

Months 2–3: Lower utilization under 30%. Bring everything current.

Months 4–6: Push utilization under 10%. Maintain perfect streak.

Most rebounds happen within 3–6 months when you're consistent.

Today my score is hovering around 820. I'm debt-free. My husband and I use credit intentionally.

The difference between sub-600 me and 800+ me came down to how I approached credit. I stopped ignoring it and started managing it.

Understand the system. Monitor it. Optimize it.

And don't wait until you need leverage to build it.

P.S. Been using this free credit tool lately to track my score without overthinking it; give it a shot and let me know what you think.

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RETIREMENT

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Worried You'll Be Bored in Retirement? Here's What Surprised Me Most

I am a young retiree.

We still own and operate an LLC, but we no longer need traditional W-2 jobs. When people hear that, they almost always ask:

"So… what do you do all day? Are you bored?"

No. I'm not bored.

Retirement doesn't look like doing nothing. It looks like choosing what fills your time instead of squeezing life around work.

If you're imagining this phase someday, here's what surprised me most.

Retirement still benefits from structure

You still need rhythm.

I control my schedule now. I make small, achievable daily lists and don't stress if everything doesn't get done.

Without structure, days blur. With gentle structure, they feel expansive.

A "soft routine" helps:

  • Weekly anchor activities

  • A few recurring commitments

  • Small daily goals to check off


Retirement means building a schedule that supports the life you want.

Purpose doesn't disappear. It becomes optional.

We still "work"—LLC projects, brainstorming ideas, taxes, writing, parenting logistics. I enjoy working alongside my husband now because we choose when and how we do it.

Purpose still matters. Work may not be required, but meaningful activity feels important.

Some retirees:

  • Consult or freelance

  • Mentor

  • Volunteer

  • Start passion projects

  • Explore creative pursuits


Retirement can mean doing work that energizes you instead of work you have to do.

The joy of an unhurried home

Some days are laundry, dog fur, organizing, pruning, or finally changing the dishwasher filter.

These used to be rushed between meetings. Now they're oddly satisfying.

There's real joy in caring for your environment slowly.

Time for yourself becomes practical

When I'm sick, I rest. I book appointments without rearranging a workday. I stretch. I read. I talk with girlfriends.

Self-care stops being aspirational and becomes everyday life.

Retirees often:

  • Build consistent fitness routines

  • Take classes

  • Walk daily

  • Journal or seek coaching

  • Invest in friendships


Hobbies feel different

Cooking slowly. Trying new recipes. Letting the pizza dough sit long enough. Taking classes just for fun.

Retirement makes room for time-rich hobbies:

  • Painting

  • Photography

  • Writing

  • Learning a language

  • Music or crafting


A question I love now is: "What am I enjoying lately?"

That answer changes often.

Travel becomes curiosity, not PTO

We used to travel for work. Now we travel for fun and to see our kids.

Travel planning like researching Airbnbs, coffee shops, tours, and flight deals (there's always a spreadsheet) is part of the joy.

Retirement travel might mean:

  • Off-season trips

  • Midweek getaways

  • Longer stays

  • Road trips

  • More visits with friends and family


It becomes about curiosity instead of squeezing days off.

Community shifts

Work once provided built-in interaction. Now connection comes through neighbors, hobbies, volunteering, book clubs, fitness classes, dog parks.

You don't lose social life in retirement, but you do build it differently.

Retirement is the beginning of choosing

My time will keep evolving. As a young retiree, I'm still figuring it out.

Things may slow down, but they don't become still.

Retirement isn't about doing nothing.

It's about choosing what fills your days.

And for me, that has been anything but boring.

— Lainie Gaither (TA Guest Writer)

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Appreciation Isn't a Perk. It's Retention.

March 6 is Employee Appreciation Day.

And whether you mean to or not, how you show up that day sends a message.

High performers don't usually leave over one bad week, but they do leave when effort goes unnoticed. When late nights, emotional labor, and problem-solving are treated like baseline expectations instead of contributions.

A generic "thank you" email at 4:47 PM doesn't fix that.

A sheet cake in the break room doesn't either.

If you're going to mark March 6, make it tangible.

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Pair it with:

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  • A public acknowledgment of impact

  • A small gesture like an early sign-off or team toast


Appreciation doesn't have to be elaborate, but it does have to feel real.

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