| 'It's like ghosting but in real life': The rise of 'alpine divorce' | |
| Hello and welcome back to Lessons in Lifestyle… On a sweltering summer day in 2011, Maya Silver was hiking through Colorado's remote Unaweep Canyon when her then-boyfriend started to grow frustrated with her pace. The sun was blazing overhead, the terrain was difficult, and she couldn't keep up. Without a word, he stormed ahead – and then vanished from sight. Silver, an inexperienced hiker at the time, spent the next two hours alone, lost and spiralling with fears of rattlesnake bites, heatstroke, and the suffocating isolation of the canyon. Silver experienced what has more recently been dubbed "alpine divorce," a new dating term that describes the physical abandonment of a significant other, intentionally or unintentionally, in the mountains. Online, women have recounted experiences like Silver's: being guided by a more experienced male partner on hikes, only to be left stranded – and with the unsettling sense that their partner does not have their best interests at heart. Read more here. What to expect in today's newsletter: | |
| Elsewhere this week, Lydia Spencer-Elliott looks into why arguing in public might actually be good for the relationship – after the hit series Love Story recreated scenes of the infamous screaming match between JFK Jr and Carolyn Bessette Kennedy in Battery Park, New York. Studies have shown that walking puts you in a more creative mindset, while arguing on-the-go also encourages "sideways listening" – when you speak with someone at an angle, rather than head-on, which can encourage them to relax and talk more openly. Find the full piece here. Until next time! |
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| In times of crisis, the world turns back to astrology. Skeptic Holly Baxter meets the people who interpret the stars of celebrities and politicians, and asks them what we should actually expect from the years ahead. More talking points: | |
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| Spring chicken: eight delicious weekend lunch recipes | Warmer weather and longer spring evenings mean that cooking starts to feel a little brighter too. From smoky chipotle brick chicken to harissa-roasted thighs and blackened chicken with clementine, Hannah Twiggs picks the dishes to cook this weekend More food and drink: | |
| Have you ever experienced 'alpine divorce'? | The new dating term "alpine divorce" describes the physical abandonment of a significant other, intentionally or unintentionally, in the mountains. The most common – and less extreme – form of alpine divorce occurs when one partner walks ahead during a hike, leaving the other alone after a minor argument. But the question is: have you ever experienced something similar? Vote in our poll and share your views in the comments here. | |
| Last week, we asked whether you worry about getting older, as new research suggests that fretting about ageing may actually speed up the ageing process in women. As it turns out, 25 per cent of you admitted you spend time concerned about it, while another 50 per cent said you do, only sometimes. Thanks for voting! |
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